They truly haven't done the "internal work" to understand their triggers. 🚩 Common "Hidden" Reasons
Using an affair as an escape rather than fixing problems at home. Does He Really Not Know Why He Cheated Or Had an Affair?
Seeking external "proof" that they are still attractive or worthy. They truly haven't done the "internal work" to
If the cheater feels they will be immediately attacked, they will stay in defensive "I don't know" mode. Does He Really Not Know Why He Cheated Or Had an Affair?
Admitting a specific reason (e.g., "I wanted validation") is painful. "I don't know" is a defense mechanism. It protects them from seeing themselves as a "bad person." Lack of Self-Awareness Many people operate on . They follow impulses rather than examining motives.