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This is perhaps the most famous takeaway. Harvey suggests that women should wait 90 days before having sex with a new partner. The logic? Most "players" or "fish" (see below) won't wait that long. It serves as a vetting process to see if the man is interested in you or just the physical benefit. 3. "Sports Fish" vs. "Keepers" Harvey categorizes men into two types:

Harvey argues that a man’s requirements are simpler than most women think. To feel fulfilled and stay committed, he needs: Act like a Lady, Think like a man

He needs to know you’re in his corner, especially when he’s battling the world. Loyalty: He needs to know you are his and his alone. This is perhaps the most famous takeaway

Harvey’s euphemism for physical intimacy. He views this as a primary driver for male behavior and commitment. 2. The "Ninety-Day Rule" Most "players" or "fish" (see below) won't wait that long

Men who are looking for a long-term partner and are willing to follow your rules to keep you. 4. Setting the "Standards and Requirements"